Why Are We Together?

To move beyond circumstantial reasons for your relationship and identify the deeper, God-given purpose for your union.

Scripture

Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. — Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

Recognizing that God brings people together not just for companionship, but for a shared Kingdom purpose.

Preparation

Find a quiet space without digital distractions. Pray individually before beginning, asking for open hearts. Agree to listen fully before responding.

Questions

1. When we first met, what initially drew you to me, and how has that attraction evolved?
2. How do you see God working through our relationship in ways we couldn't accomplish individually?
3. In what areas do our strengths and weaknesses complement each other?
4. What is a core value we both share, and how does it show up in our daily lives?
5. When have you felt most aligned and united with me?
6. Are there any distractions or outside pressures currently pulling us away from our shared focus?
7. How can we better support each other's spiritual growth?
8. What is one specific way we can serve or bless others as a couple in this season?
9. How do we typically handle moments when our goals or priorities seem to misalign?
10. What kind of legacy do we want our relationship to leave for our family and community?

Next step

Identify one shared goal or service opportunity you can commit to together this month.

Prayer

Lord, thank You for bringing us together. Help us to see our relationship through Your eyes, not just for our own comfort, but for Your glory. Give us clarity on our shared purpose and the courage to pursue it united. Amen.